Tuesday, August 24, 2010

What is your philosophy about relationships?

Are people in your life to tell your secrets to?


Are people in your life to listen to your problems?


Are people in your life to listen to your complaints?


Are people in your life to life you up?


Are people in your life to be your counselor?


Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation?





What role do people play in your relationships?What is your philosophy about relationships?
Most all of life's lessons are learned through the relationships


we set in motion.


Some hermits seem to gain spiritually by avoiding relationships


but that is only delay. Learning to love our fellow man because


we are one is required prior to graduation.


Somewhere along the way, secrets will become non events.


Presently, all of your questions are true in my life.What is your philosophy about relationships?
A romantic sexual relationship is about personal development for all those involved, including any children or other partners (given openness, i'm not talking about secret affairs). It should be a haven and a challenge. That is, it should be a private utopia from which one can escape the world, but like a lever, a firm spot on which to stand from which one can move the world too, and a challenge in the sense that it should make both people better. It may also be temporary, and involve moving on to a higher plane with another person in order to avoid stagnation, but commitment might also be important, depending on the relationship. People are in my life so that i can help them and protect them from the worst the world can throw at them, so i can listen to them, be there for them and so on. In a relationship, i only have duties to the other person. They may choose to do things for me, but that isn't their role and it's beyond the call of duty.
since apparently y ou want a Q and A


What is your philosophy about relationships? They're tricky. Life goes to the strong.


Are people in your life to tell your secrets to? No.


Are people in your life to listen to your problems? Some.


Are people in your life to listen to your complaints? Some.


Are people in your life to live you up? Not really. One teacher, though.


Are people in your life to be your counselor? One.,


Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation? One or two.





What role do people play in your relationships? sounding boards and some appreciation.
WE share ...that is what the beauty of my relationships are...a weaving...of love....the light and the dark...I choose love...to love and to be loved...both in the rain and in the sunshine of life! And to each life the rain falls as does the sunshine shines.! The tides some and go...and if we are truly blessed the seventh tide carries us into graces....untold and unexpected! I dance through the flows! ! :))
I tell people that everyone in my life brings me happiness...some by staying in it and some by getting the heck out of it. We all have a bad day now and then, but I will not allow negative people to be in my life for any length of time. Life is just to short.
Relationships I've found operate very well for myself and other when it's a mutual transference of energy, bringing the energy higher.

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