What has made your relationships everlasting?

What aspects of your relationship do you attribute to your lasting relationship with your spouse. What is it about them that you couldn't live without?What has made your relationships everlasting?
Patience. lol.


We also joke around a lot and try to make each other laugh. We have set traditions to look forward to (like each year for his birthday I order cookies from his favorite childhood bakery... in Connecticut... we live in TX)


When he is here we try new things together and hang out with eachothers friends... we have a lot of the same interests (bands, sports, movies, etc)


Right now he is on his 3rd deployment (Iraq) and it is hard... but I write him a lot and we talk whenever we can. Any time I am out running errands I try to find something to send him...whether its his favorite candy or just a funny card.





What couldnt I live without? His hugs, kisses, laugh, smile, the way he touches my face. I have found myself even missing his snoring and the way he picks at his thumb. I miss him dancing in the car and singing at the top of his lungs. lol


I couldnt live without his understanding and support... hes a wonderful man and I feel very lucky to have him in my life.What has made your relationships everlasting?
Well, we are only at 13 years. I do think I have some ideas as to what really works for us in our particular situation and with our individual personalities.


#1 Commitment, loyalty, and friendship (combined). Both my husband and I are very connected via our friendship and neither one of us has yet to desire a change.


#2 Passion, we both have it for one another. When we argue, the way we love each other, and when we make love. It works for us. He's never been boring to me. He's fiery and I am feisty.


#3, each of us is frequently attentive towards the other.


#4 I stay home. My husband needs someone to take care of, as do I. Staying home is a great way to ensure that we are each playing an active role in caring for the other.


#5 Both of us are honest %26amp; talk to each other, often. I share my needs and am open to his. We talk about anything and everything we need to.





What I can't live without? Him. Everything else I am fine with!


We can all improve but he's as close as any man is ever going to get to perfect for this girl, as is.





BTW his top 2 qualities, loyalty and attentiveness.
1. let go of your own ego


2. trust


3. communication








if you can master those three, your relationship will stay pretty solid.
Honest love and trust without nagging, quarreling and fighting and giving space to each other.
Our devotion to eachother. Our trust and honesty.He loves me unconditonally; and I can be a moody wife. He has sooo much patience; and he is great with our boys.We are totally one.
my husband and i have been married for eight years. The thing that keeps me with him is that i know ive found someone who has my back no matter what happens.
re: What has made your relationships everlasting?


%26gt;%26gt; Simply KNOWLEDGE!


We both learned how to make a good relationship.........


LOL......... try it!
My asian husband is obsess with me because I'm a white woman. He showers me with attention. I'm very flattered.
Having his hand to hold and his arms to be in.