Can long distance relationships really wok. Me and my GF are going to different colleges ?

The drive is only about 1.5 hours and we have been together for about a year and a half. I know she will be going out and partying alot so i don't know. Can long distance relationships really wok. Me and my GF are going to different colleges ?
Long Distance Relationship are a bit harder a little more different than a normal relationship, but really they just expose the connection you have to eachother for what it is without letting you cover it up with sex all the time. Do most LDRs work? Nope. But then again, neither do most relationships.





1.5hrs is nothing, you can survive that easily. Infact that's barely considered an LDR. What you really ahve to worry about is if you can both avoid the temptations that will be put infront of you at college. You'll both be distracted by school work, you'll both be developing your own social life with new friends and things to do. You'll be joining fraternities/sororities or sports teams that will eat up alot of your time. You'll be traveling on road trips etc... you're going to need to make sure that you prioritize time for eachother over anything else.





Probably the biggest stumbling block I can foresee you two running into is the alcohol and availablilty of attractive members of the opposite sex. Are you going to be able to trust her that she's going to be careful not to get too drunk and hook up with someone? Is she gonna be able to trust the same from you? Are you gonna want to stay with her after you hit a couple parties and find a couple of really hot and cool chicks that want to hang out with you? How mad are you gonna get when you find out that she's hanging out at Fraternity houses and that most of her new group of friends are all guys and they're just going getting hammered all the time?





Going to different colleges makes relationships very tough. I've seen a few work out, but I've seen a TON fail. That said, if it's meant to be, it will be and it will require a lot of work, but there's really no difference b/w that and any other relationship.Can long distance relationships really wok. Me and my GF are going to different colleges ?
They /can/ work... but only if both people are committed to it and willing to work hard for it. There also needs to be a level of trust and communication that is much much higher than in a normal relationship.





So I would talk to your girlfriend and make sure that is what you two really want for each other... and 1.5 hours isn't too bad... that is far enough away to be able to focus on studies but close enough that you two can see each other fairly regularly.





When my husband and I were in a Long distance relationship we were too far away from each other... (a 6 hour air trip, that is including lay overs though)
I think long distance relationship dont really work out. And you guys are going to different colleges, you will meet other people and so will she. You guys are going to live a different life. Her taste will change and so will yours. I thinks its better to just breake it off now and meet other people. Its up to you, if you want to keep seeing her.
you two will last until about mid terms before you break up.


youre going to meet so many different chicks in college, youll forget your hs gf even existed.