How does someone get past having commitment/trust issues in relationships in general?

By commitment/trust issues, I mean mainly myself. I have a hard time getting close to people and when things are good, they're good. For some reason though, I just can't help but mess the situation up as time goes on. Friends, family, boyfriends, just can't get it fully together. Could it be past emotional damages that keep me from being a genuine, honest, trustworthy person, or is it just me?How does someone get past having commitment/trust issues in relationships in general?
If you know you have trust issues there probably was someone in your past that gave you reason, but when you move on be sure to leave that baggage behind. no two people are the same and its not fair to mistrust the new person just because someone else hurt you. by all means, dont be a door mat but if you know you have these issues, maybe try to curb them on your own a little bit. become a little more accepting of answers given to you etc..How does someone get past having commitment/trust issues in relationships in general?
Just think. . . .


Is it good?


Why?


If you are damaged, understand its that which are causing what you do not the current relationship so don't f**k it up because of something what is in the past.


Do NOT just mess up what could be perfiect and beautiful up because of what was in the past.


The past is the past


Your'e running away from what could be the most perfrect love of your life.


What you feel is not what it is.


What you feel is what was from before.


Not now.


Realize it.


We all hurt.


Don't ever hurt someone who does not deserve it.


And breaking up is not going to help.


Think of who you are with and stop just thiinking of yourself.