Saturday, August 21, 2010

What is the reasoning behind talking to a guy who's never been in a relationship about relationships?

What experience or knowledge could I possibly have about relationships what isn't common knowledge? It's mostly women who do it, most guys I know tend to keep to themselves about their problems which is WAY healthier than dealing with the cynical 19 year old computer major (Read: I ain't dealing with psych, where I'd have atleast a theoretical knowledge of such things). I mean, I don't want to deal with their lives, their relationships (or lack there of), but they don't seem to pick up on that.What is the reasoning behind talking to a guy who's never been in a relationship about relationships?
Obviously someone has been trying to open up to you and you are not prepared to open up to them because you are inclined to be more private about your life, which is perfectly fine - its a matter of trust and I think you don't trust this person.





Some people need to express their feelings and emotions because they don't want to bottle it all up inside and in actual fact are freer than the person who does. The one who does builds up walls whereas the one who expresses him/herself builds bridges. Building up walls only closes up a person and keeps everything inside and one day the walls come crashing down and there is one glorious mess. It is all a matter of choice, after all that is really what life is about choosing right from wrong, positive or negative, whatever! We must not criticize one another because we all do things differently and should respect each others choices bearing in mind that every choice we make has a consequence be it good or be it bad. We must face the consequences of our own choices. If you feel comfortable with yourself and being private, then by all means be that! Its your choice. We cannot tell you what to do - you have to live with you not us with you. Our opinions should not matter but what you choose for yourself should matter and that's that!What is the reasoning behind talking to a guy who's never been in a relationship about relationships?
actually psych tests have shown that just telling you proplems to no one helps, adn telling them to someone helps as well, and maybe you give good advice. im in the same situation, i give the advice even though ive never had a relationship, they still ask.

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