Why do people with bad relationships come onto yahoo answers and ask really long questions?

Why do people with bad relationships come onto yahoo answers ask us question long as questions which most people will never read and ask us to solve their problems when in reality their problem is themselves and they need extensive therapy. Thanks for answering.Why do people with bad relationships come onto yahoo answers and ask really long questions?
Because they need help or someone to confide in Why do people with bad relationships come onto yahoo answers and ask really long questions?
because they dont want to go to therapy and show their face, whereas over here they can just post and feel relieved they vented it out...





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i dunno...


just wanted to get 2 points for answering this question...

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How does kabbalah work in relationships?

Ok so what does the wisdom of kabbalah say about relationships oh please explain it in your own words. Like what does it say about love and heartbreak. Thank you for answeringHow does kabbalah work in relationships?
There are not many kabalists on here, if any, although I want to study this. One well-known book is: 'key to the truth kabalah' by Franz Bardon. May or may not help with what you were looking for...just though I'd make a suggestion.How does kabbalah work in relationships?
PRAY TO GOD FOR THE ANSWER

What is your philosophy about relationships?

Are people in your life to tell your secrets to?


Are people in your life to listen to your problems?


Are people in your life to listen to your complaints?


Are people in your life to life you up?


Are people in your life to be your counselor?


Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation?





What role do people play in your relationships?What is your philosophy about relationships?
Most all of life's lessons are learned through the relationships


we set in motion.


Some hermits seem to gain spiritually by avoiding relationships


but that is only delay. Learning to love our fellow man because


we are one is required prior to graduation.


Somewhere along the way, secrets will become non events.


Presently, all of your questions are true in my life.What is your philosophy about relationships?
A romantic sexual relationship is about personal development for all those involved, including any children or other partners (given openness, i'm not talking about secret affairs). It should be a haven and a challenge. That is, it should be a private utopia from which one can escape the world, but like a lever, a firm spot on which to stand from which one can move the world too, and a challenge in the sense that it should make both people better. It may also be temporary, and involve moving on to a higher plane with another person in order to avoid stagnation, but commitment might also be important, depending on the relationship. People are in my life so that i can help them and protect them from the worst the world can throw at them, so i can listen to them, be there for them and so on. In a relationship, i only have duties to the other person. They may choose to do things for me, but that isn't their role and it's beyond the call of duty.
since apparently y ou want a Q and A


What is your philosophy about relationships? They're tricky. Life goes to the strong.


Are people in your life to tell your secrets to? No.


Are people in your life to listen to your problems? Some.


Are people in your life to listen to your complaints? Some.


Are people in your life to live you up? Not really. One teacher, though.


Are people in your life to be your counselor? One.,


Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation? One or two.





What role do people play in your relationships? sounding boards and some appreciation.
WE share ...that is what the beauty of my relationships are...a weaving...of love....the light and the dark...I choose love...to love and to be loved...both in the rain and in the sunshine of life! And to each life the rain falls as does the sunshine shines.! The tides some and go...and if we are truly blessed the seventh tide carries us into graces....untold and unexpected! I dance through the flows! ! :))
I tell people that everyone in my life brings me happiness...some by staying in it and some by getting the heck out of it. We all have a bad day now and then, but I will not allow negative people to be in my life for any length of time. Life is just to short.
Relationships I've found operate very well for myself and other when it's a mutual transference of energy, bringing the energy higher.

Scorpio moons: How much do you notice your unconscious side in relationships?

';Scorpio moon feels a whole range of powerful emotions - desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or intense loathing -and Scorpio cannot live without relating on a very deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation. In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Scorpio will (consciously or unconsciously) provoke some trouble in a relationship. Scorpio seems to thrive on emotional drama and intensity';.Scorpio moons: How much do you notice your unconscious side in relationships?
oh i've definitly noticed it. Although i thought my dramatic and confrontational side was my leo venus. But i have certainly noticed it. I know that a relationship with me is never going to be a walk in the park. i've noticed i say things highly unnessary just to get a rise from people i love, if my partner is ignoring me at an event, i will leave abruptly.. and just tell them i thought they were busy. I really do test them because it seems unlikely that they will feel for me what i feel for them.





I remember when i was in a relationship with a guy i loved, but did not feel like we connected and we had a fight. And i said ';I'm off to find something better'; and walked home. The next morning i called him and chattd away and he seemed to be crying? did i do this to him just for fun? i asked him ';whats wronge?';, he said i broke up with him last night and i said ';no i didn't'; .. .





i will say things like you don't love me because i sincerely beleive this. While i say this i i do put it forward in a rather playful way. I'd hate anyone to know how serious i am about forming a connection with this person. Often people think i am playing head games. But i really am in it to be with someone who has enough energy and stamina to overcome my crazy ways. I often feel once someone has done the hard yards, i know he is worthy of my passion and love. And i will do everything to make them happy. If they arn't returning the favour i will ignor them or i will lose it.





It seems silly, because relationships are about give and take.. sometimes your the one always giving, sometimes they are the one always giving..However a scorpio moon feels their passion and love is boundless.. i will literly obsess over making us happy. And therefore, i really expect to know that they appreciate me, and that i am not wasting my energy. This is expressed by various ups and downs that i hope they will withstand.





sometimes i feel the huge ego of the scorpio is highly difficult, but i know first hand that there is no one who will feel as intense love and have as fierce loyalty about another person as those with scorpio placements.





(i'd hate to date me lol)Scorpio moons: How much do you notice your unconscious side in relationships?
Scorp moon here! My sun is a Leo. Im a hot mess! I can seriously confuse myself sometimes. At one moment I can feel truly in love and the next I can drop him like a bad habit. I do feel all the break up pain but me being a Leo with lots of pride, will not make the first move on getting back together. I do feel like my love is very special and if you even get a taste of my love, you should feel special. If I dont receive or see that same devotion im putting out, I will drop them and move on. They say Scorps love whole hearted and hate whole hearted...there is not alot of grey area with me. I broke alot of hearts in my day and made alot of stupid mistakes. I believe whoever ends up with me, it will take someone a little crazy and a little grounded mixed in with a whole lot of patience.
while i do thrive on intensity i don't go out of my way to create any drama. but your right once someone has me hooked and i know i want to stay with them i need the relationship to be deep and intimate but not clingy. yes by nature our emotions are powerful but we learn to control them as well.

How can I stop myself from loving people in my future relationships?

I don't think I want to fall in love till I get married. I'm scared of all the heartbreak. In all of my relationships I've gotten to know the person quite well, but it just doesn't end well because I feel they don't understand me, when I thought they did.How can I stop myself from loving people in my future relationships?
The process IS painful, but it's the process. It makes us who we are, it teaches us what we like and what we dislike. It shows us what to look for and avoid in a relationships. The bad relationships make the good relationships good and without the stinkers I know I would have never found the man of my dreams and married him. It's true what they say; You can't ever have a rainbow without a little rain.





You have to take risks in life to really enjoy it. Life simply hasn't been lived if you don't get a little dirty in the process, do don't live like you are scared, live like you are scared to not live!How can I stop myself from loving people in my future relationships?
You can't pick when you fall in love. If you try not to fall in love now, you probably won't even MEET the person you want to marry.


Just use your head and try to determine whether the guy you're thinking of is compatible with you and would make a good husband, what personality traits he has, etc. and then try to let yourself be a bit more trusting if you find it.


I personally think it is worth loving someone and then experiencing the heartbreak that may or may not happen, than trying to make yourself not love them.
you just let it happen, and you are going to face heart break sometimes but your also going to face the most joyous of times that can't be put into words anyway just let it happen when it happens if your going out with a guy just don't take it to seriously. if you go out for like three years then you have a chance for getting married. but you shouldn't be afraid of heartbreak. and about them understanding you only your soul mate can fully understand you so you can't worry about that and you will find true love one day. so just let it happen and don't fear this! be strong! good luck!
No one wants to be heart broken but its the way life works, its the lessons you learn from those relationships that will help you. Love is not something that we can control, so we are naturally scared to take that BIG step. when you love someone you need to understand that clarity is important be clear about who you are and what you want from you partner, you have to open up and let them see the REAL you, is not something that can be done overnight...its will take time...you just need to be patient with them. you need to experience love and sadly loss to truly understand why a relationship doesn't work. communication is the key.





I hope this helps..Good luck!!
You can't NOT fall in love until you get married, or you'd never get married. You'd never love the guy enough to WANT to get married.





If you are really this afraid of heartbreak, maybe you should just take some ';me'; time and not have relationships. When you find a guy worth dating, you'll know he's right.
Y would you want to stop yourself from loving people. That would be an extremely lonely existence. Heartbreak happens you need to get over it. But you will find someone who ';gets'; you someday and who knows it may be sooner than you think. If you are really broken up about a past relationship i'd say get some professional help to sort it out. Good luck and don't give up on love just yet.
You can never stop yourself from falling in love. It is just something that happens. You can try to keep your guard up more and be more alert but that's about it.


Some people fall in love once and then they are with that person forever.


Others, like you and I, might go through being in love a dozen times before we meet ';the one';.


Just hang in there and be optimistic. :)
i don't think thats a good plan.


because seriously in the future. you wouldn't know what to do when u do get confused. face it now and later on in the future you will know how to handle things better.





be strong. right now honestly your being weak.





everyone is scaried of heartbreaks but people are still out there finding that person.
U can't help when or who we will fall in love with....just cuz u been in bad relationships before doesn't mean that u r doomed... Relax that's part of life... Eventually u will find the man of ur dreams.... Remember u have to go through alot of frogs to find ur prince
Well you answered your own question. Stop wasting your time on people and enjoy your life. Relationships will always be there.

If embryonic development is compared in different organisms, does it reflect evolutionary relationships?

If embryonic development is compared in different organisms, does it reflect evolutionary relationships? Give two examples.If embryonic development is compared in different organisms, does it reflect evolutionary relationships?
Absolutely. For example, one characters of chordates (NOT vertebrates) is that we all have pharyngeal gill slits at some point in our development. Humans do have gills, but only in our embryonic stage, and then they dissapear.





At some point in their development all chordates have a notochord, a hollow dorsal nerve cord, pharyngeal slits, an endostyle, and a post-anal.


Depending on the organism some of these dissapear during the embryonic stage or at some point in life.


Most humans are born without a tail because it usually dissapears sometime during embryonic development.

What is a marketing tool that attempts to uncover hidden patterns and relationships?

between data about a company and a consumer?What is a marketing tool that attempts to uncover hidden patterns and relationships?
Consumer Reports

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What does it mean when someone says your emotionally immature in relationships?

Everyone i've ever dated has always said i was immature when it comes to relationships...what does that ever really mean?What does it mean when someone says your emotionally immature in relationships?
basically ur not ready to be in relationshio until u mature a bit..

Where there any interracial relationships during the time of slavery?

I have to do a page report on the civil war (U.S). The twist is that I can write it on any topic that relates to the civil war (before, during, after). So I was wondering if there was any case of a black and white relationship during this time. I'm not pinning my report on this, but it'd be nice.Where there any interracial relationships during the time of slavery?
Yes quite a few.. not only the cases with white men and slave women that everyone keeps referring to, but also with black free men/women and others. Note it was dangerous though as it could be used against you and in many areas was illegal.





An example would be Sally Hemming. Not only is there the strong possibility of her relationship with Thomas Jefferson (including him possibly being the father of her children, and at least one of her children has been shown of the Jefferson bloodline) but also the fact that she was the half sister of Jefferson's late wife. (Hemming was 3/4's white.)Where there any interracial relationships during the time of slavery?
According to history, yes...there were relationships between black and white, but mostly, it was white male slave owners who had relations with their black slave women. I'm sure there were other relationships, but were not talked about and were hidden because of being disowned and ridiculed by family and others. I know it was just a movie, but the mini series, ';North and South'; featuring Patrick Swayze had his friend's sister (a northern white lady), marrying a black ex-slave.
Slave women were routinely raped by their ';owners';.


Any other ';relationship'; between people of different races was illegal.


And it remained so until 1967





http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._V鈥?/a>





Look up miscegenation
I lot of female slaves were raped by white men, and also their masters would offer them preferential treatment for sexual favors. I'm sure there were some uplifting stories of true love but I can't think of any right now.
A lot of high yellows came from white men with female slaves.
If you've ever seen roots the answer would be yes.

How to get high relationships FAST in Sims 3?

It's soooo frustrating how you meet someone you want as a spouse/friend but you have to sit there for ages doing stupid socializing and stuff until it's high enough for you to make your move. Does anyone know any way that you can make them have FAST relationships? Like, a cheat or something, like in Sims 2.How to get high relationships FAST in Sims 3?
use the lifetime rewards to make your sims charmers and it'll go faster. They can still live together and sleep together without being married though. I had one that had 5 kids and never married until he died and I brought him back to life and then got them married.How to get high relationships FAST in Sims 3?
just keep on talking with the sims untill their relation meter is full.


i got a nice cheat for the game to have unlimited money,just press ctrl+alt+c together and a console will open up.type there ';Motherlode'; without quotes and press enter for 50,000 more Simoleons and if u require more money then keep on doing it.


there are more cheats,after the console opens type:





';shazaam'; -to add +2,500 lifetime happiness points to active Sim


';force opportunity'; - Click career building you work at to force an opportunity


';force event'; - Click career building you work at to force an event


';force all events'; - Click career building to display all events for the career consecutively


';force visitor'; - Forces a neighbor to show up


';make me know everyone'; - Selected Sim knows every other Sim


';make friends for me'; - Make several random friends for selected Sim


';make happy'; - Sets all mood/moodlets for everyone in the house to perfect; removes negative moodlets

What percentage of women in the US are currently in abusive relationships?

It seems like the amount is growing each day. Opinions? Facts?What percentage of women in the US are currently in abusive relationships?
The facts are we will never know the true #, it's far more than is reportedWhat percentage of women in the US are currently in abusive relationships?
All of them if you ask them.I wonder how many of the guys in those relationships are just as abused.

Do you perceive romantic relationships as a luxury , or as being necessary for overall well-being?

I notice that some people I know seem to think they're as necessary to life as eating and breathing, and yet I see other people go through life without any relationships and do just fine. It's a remarkable phenomenon.Do you perceive romantic relationships as a luxury , or as being necessary for overall well-being?
Opinions vary, and so do positions in life. Some feel that relationships are crucial in their happiness, while others are in no position to entertain a relationship. I am a full time college student, as well as involved in a serious relationship. At times, the schedules of each conflict, but in order to maintain both, I make it work. Both have an impact on my future, so both deserve equal attention. Some may not be able to ';juggle'; a relationship during periods of personal growth, but may use a relationship as a goal when the growth is finished. To each his own.Do you perceive romantic relationships as a luxury , or as being necessary for overall well-being?
It depends. The thing about romantic relationships is that it hits you out of no where, but once you have it, you have trouble being with out it. Before it hits you though, you are fine with out it.





Also remember that once you do experience it, it can alter and change your life and make you a much more happy person with meaning and purpose in your life. With out it, you are usually just another brick in the wall...
I feel you have to be able to be happy alone without the ';need'; for a relationship. If you can not be happy by yourself then you will drain the relationship quickly. They are important to being well rounded. Ability to receive and give love, but not the most important thing in the world. I love my husband but can be happy doing our own things as well.
its not a necessity, i think you have to be able to make yourself happy and you can;t rely on anyone else for that, i've been single by choice for about 2 years now, I just don't want a romantic relationship right now, I'm focusing on my career and my home, and I'm perfectly happy!
well a good healthy relationship can enhance your well-being but the bad relationships make you decide they are totally not worth the trouble

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Whats a good book that i can analyse about the concept of relationships?

It can be any type of book (short story, non fiction, fictione ect) as long as it focusses on family or mentor relationships. THANKYOU!Whats a good book that i can analyse about the concept of relationships?
Try Revolutionary Road...this book is one of Kate Winslet's (Academy Award winning actress) favorite book:


http://famouspick.blogspot.com/2009/02/k鈥?/a>





Kate Winslet comment:


';Frank and April Wheeler meet in New York. He has bohemian ideas; she is a woman who believed that she was going to be something special among a group of special people. After they move to the suburbs, you see quite clearly the isolation they feel once severed from the city. In the moments when the two are happy, you see how happiness can be reignited in a relationship that鈥檚 starting to go sour, but they insist on seeing themselves as a kind of golden couple, destined for a more glamorous life. It鈥檚 really a story about disappointment鈥攁nd how that can destroy one鈥檚 soul.';Whats a good book that i can analyse about the concept of relationships?
You might try that with ';Uncertain'; by Melissa K. Andres. It's a murder mystery and it's really good! It's available on barnesandnoble.com and amazon.com. I think you'd really like it! It's about a family who falls into some bad things but some of them are turned around after meeting another character.
Try to read this book: Call Me Hope.





It's about this girl who has a bad relationship with her verbal-abusing mom.





In the end, her mom changes.





the book made me cry.





Try it.





Or you could try the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer.
lol twilight.


or pretty much any fiction that is based in ww2.


also if a film is ok you could try the karate kid.


also you may be able to use robin hood

What are the evolutionary relationships between prokaryotes and eukaryotes?

What are the differences and please include structural adaptations and their functional significance.





Instead of prokaryotes or eukaryotes you can use:





green algae and vascular plants





or





amphibians and reptilesWhat are the evolutionary relationships between prokaryotes and eukaryotes?
Prokaryotes developed first and Eukaryotes evolved from Prokaryotes.

How did actions taken by both Native Americans and European colonists shape relationships in these areas?

- Chesapeake


- Spanish Southwest





Try to give a couple of reasons for each. I need about five, but you can give less if you want to.How did actions taken by both Native Americans and European colonists shape relationships in these areas?
Spanish Southwest:





Hundreds of thousands of Native Americans had inhabited regions like the Great Plains, the Southwest, and the Pacific Coast for centuries, but their nomadic lifestyle enabled settlers to continue the ongoing process of encroachment. In the eyes of the whites, the Indians' migratory social structure also made them unfit to ';properly'; settle the land according to the Western model of agricultural production.





Georgia:





When Native Americans turned to the federal government to support their territorial claims, even winning a Supreme Court ruling that affirmed those claims, President Jackson turned a deaf ear. He ignored three decades of government precedent, and a clear Court ruling, while implementing a removal policy that displaced over 90,000 people.





From Shmoop History

Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?

it's up to you.





some guys might like a girl that bites, while you might think it's a phase that 3 year olds go through. also, depends on whether or not you're okay with someone who smokes pot. i wouldn't be, but that's me.Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?
well that is interesting.


you sound like you arent really okay with it.


you shouldnt put up with it if you arent.


and pot is bad for everybody and itys stupid that she is doing it.Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?
you dont know her enough to b her gf i guess





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NO


ALL RELATIONSHIPS MUST BE EQUAL....KICK HER TO THE KERB!
hey sounds like me except not just occassionally
If you're okay with it, then yes.
HELL YEAH!
well yea.But she shouldnt smoke pot its stupid
If you like it, sure.





If you dont like it alot, change her by talking/doing stuff.





if you hate it, BEAT HER THE HELL UP.

What does romeo and paris' arranged marriage suggest about male and female relationships in Verona?

This is a GCSE question and I haven't got a clue. Please help.What does romeo and paris' arranged marriage suggest about male and female relationships in Verona?
The idea of marrying for love was a fairly new concept in Shakespeare's time. Before that, marriage (especially in wealthy or noble families) was a way to strengthen alliances and continue dynasties. Even poorer families looked for matches that would increase their wealth and status.





Women in particular were regarded as chattels (possessions). They were basically traded to another family in return for something else.





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Is there a public database of all known species and their evolutionary relationships?

Is there a database or xml tree somewhere that I can access that will show me all or most of the known animal species and where they are on the evolutionary tree?Is there a public database of all known species and their evolutionary relationships?
Not exactly what you're looking for, but you might want to check out the Tree of Life Project (see links in my sources). It's not a workable database or XML tree, but it does aim to catalogue all species and their evolutionary relationships.Is there a public database of all known species and their evolutionary relationships?
';We do not know, to within 10% or so, how many distinct eukaryotic species have been named and recorded (the species concept arguably needs to be interpreted differently for prokaryotes). This derives partly from the lack of synoptic and coordinated catalogs for many invertebrate taxa and partly from resulting unresolved synonymies: the same species separately identified and named on two or more occasions. The total number of known eukaryotic species is currently estimated as ~1.8 to 1.9 million, but with all the synonymies removed it may be 1.6 million or fewer. Bird and mammal species are known very well and most other vertebrates reasonably well. Somewhere around 90% of plant species are probably known. But our knowledge of invertebrate species (insects, helminths, and others) is woefully inadequate. So credible estimates of the true eukaryotic species total run around 5 to 10 million, but suggestions as low as 3 million or as high as 100 million can


be defended.';


Species Uncertainties by Robert M. May and Paul H. Harvey


Science 6 February 2009:Vol. 323. no. 5915, p. 687





There have been several attempts and start-ups (see the above answer) but there is no easily accessible record - there's not enough people working in this field and there's not enough money or interest to do more. Above the species level, there are more complete phylogenies but the taxonomic resolution is very broad:


http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_FeaU01D-3wI/SS鈥?/a>


http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_FeaU01D-3wI/SS鈥?/a>

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What does romeo and paris' arranged marriage suggest about male and female relationships in Verona?

This is a GCSE question and I haven't got a clue. Please help.What does romeo and paris' arranged marriage suggest about male and female relationships in Verona?
The idea of marrying for love was a fairly new concept in Shakespeare's time. Before that, marriage (especially in wealthy or noble families) was a way to strengthen alliances and continue dynasties. Even poorer families looked for matches that would increase their wealth and status.





Women in particular were regarded as chattels (possessions). They were basically traded to another family in return for something else.





Civis Romanus

How does marriage and relationships work in the CIA or SIS?

It sounds like an interesting career (particularly the Clandestine branch as I like travel and excitement) Obviously I understand it's a lot more simple desk type work and stuff then shown in movies and such. But my real concern is marriage and dating and such. I want to get married one day but I want to know how a career in the CIA or SIS would interfere. The nature of the work is very secretive so would you have to lie to your spouse about what you do? Are you even allowed to get married or date while in the service? Things like that. ThanksHow does marriage and relationships work in the CIA or SIS?
you can marry

Why do people care what others think of them and their relationships?

I mean, it's your right to be happy. And you only have one life to live, so take risks. This is for interracial and rich/poor people relationships.Why do people care what others think of them and their relationships?
It's true for the most part. You need to go with who makes you happy.





But at the same time, sometimes it's not safe.





For instance, being a white guy who dates a black girl in the deep south, in a little podunk town. Being gay in the same sort of place. Living in the ghetto with your significant other when people know that you are from a successful family and have nice things - thus, you become a target for attack.





I was in a relationship with a black girl that caved because nearly no one supported us - even our friends. Couldn't walk anywhere without getting nasty stares, comments, etc. Maybe now as an adult it wouldn't be so bad but as a teenager, it was tough.Why do people care what others think of them and their relationships?
I dont care who thinks what of my relationships











Hey tristan I thought you dated only Asian girls?
well i dont !!


*based on they way they use to live back then people still go by the old rules about being richer or different race and all that B.S %26lt;3

Why do high school relationships have such a low percentage of working out?

Now, I understand male teenagers have only one thing on their minds, But not mine... I mean, I'll admit it, I think about sex... SOMETIMES. But it's not all that important in a relationship, am I right? Males in my high school, (or at least the ones I've observed) almost always aim to have sex with that girl, and then leave them, only to go with do it with another... Ugh, it just agrivates me how idiotic they are.Why do high school relationships have such a low percentage of working out?
to young./.Why do high school relationships have such a low percentage of working out?
The only generalization you can make is that as we grow and mature, our standards and emotional needs change, from day to day as well as year to year.





As for the boys you describe, those aren't ';relationships';, they're conquests. The behavior is common but not typical of most boys. You apparently are only hanging out with girls who routinely give it away in an effort to attract boys and consequently routinely attract that kind of boy. Change your circle of friends and you will find boys who care about the person more than the possibility of sex.
High school and even college people are at that experimenting stage in their lives.





Some people mature faster than others, while some don't mature at all.





Age, maturity, hormones, experiences, upbringing, lifestyle, all play important roles in building relationships.
It has to do with maturity, and the fact that teenagers are just discovering who they are. Therefore, what they want and need is bound to change.





My parents were high school sweethearts, they have been married for 43 years this July.











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The biggest reason for high school relationships not working out is simply that high school age is too young to be involved in a relationship - with sex or not doesn't really matter. Of course I didn't know that when I was that age.
Two words......Age.......Maturity..... Any questions??!!
Why would you want one to! The only thing I could think of at my HS graduation was--after tonight I'll never see any of these tedious people again.
raging hormones prevent you from remaining committed to one person.
when ur young u aren't mature. and..ur young is also why

Why does Sarah M keep giving exactly the same reply to every Relationships question?

Can I suggest we all report her for spamming?Why does Sarah M keep giving exactly the same reply to every Relationships question?
i haven't seen that. just click ';Report Abuse'; if it bothers you.Why does Sarah M keep giving exactly the same reply to every Relationships question?
you do get spammers that do that!
maybe she doesn't talk in english, and that is the only thing that she knows how to say
she's wracking points

What do you think of women who stay in physically/verbally abusive relationships?

Do you sympathize with them? Or do you feel that they contribute to their own suffering by staying in the relationship? Also, please give me your reasons.What do you think of women who stay in physically/verbally abusive relationships?
This is a very difficult question to answer. Any caring person feels empathy towards someone who is suffering, but it is difficult to continue wanting to help someone who seems unable, or unwilling, to help themselves - especially when the answer seems so clear to an objective observer.





I think the important thing to understand is that is a slow and destructive process to break down a woman, and it happens so slowly and subtley that she doesn't notice until it is too late. To stay in these relationships brings on a myriad of reasons - all of which make sense, in a strange way. They still love their partner, seems to be the top one, along with ';he's not like this ALL the time...';. They may fear their partner, but the abuse they have suffered has created a fear of what to expect from others, too. It's all about ';the devil you know';.





Finances is a huge one. A lot of these women find themselves unemployed, bills to pay, children to support...it's somehow easier to make excuses for your partner than try to make it on your own, especially after you have been told, over and over again, that you can't.





Another is a lack of support - by the time the abuse is at its' pinnacle, the abuser has successfully shut out or created a rift with every possible support person the woman had, family included. Imagine how hard it would be to walk away from an abuser when you feel that you have absolutely nowhere to go, no one to turn to and you don't believe that even your family would be willing to help you - now, imagine throwing children into this predicament - nobody wants to take their children to a shelter, disrupting their school/schedule and for a lot of women that comes with the fear of child services becoming involved, if they weren't already, and the fear of having their children taken away..





Which brings us to fear...fear of the abuser is often less frightening than the fear of the unknown. Fear of being judged for being weak willed and suffering the abuse (they, too, probably wondered why on earth any woman would tolerate abuse before they found themselves in that situation). Then there is the fear and shame of people around her knowing what has been going on behind closed door and talking and gossipping about it. Fear of having to find out if their abuser was right or wrong about their ability to function on their own.





Unfortunately, too many women enter unhealthy relationships because they don't have the proper respect for themselves to begin with, but this happens to strong and confident women, too.





Have sympathy and don't ever give up on a friend that you feel might be sinking into this trap - even if it is to just call when you know the partner is not at home and remind her, over her denials that anything at all is wrong, that you are always there for her.What do you think of women who stay in physically/verbally abusive relationships?
A woman who is in a physically and/or verbally abusive relationship is generally in a situation where she is being told that she is completely worthless, not worth the time he is spending with/on her.





From someone who has been in an abusive (both physical and verbal) it's hard not to feel as they tell you.





Abusers will purposely try to get you as far from family and friends so that it is harder for them to leave...





It is harder to get out of verbally abusive relationship than it is a physical because it's harder to get proof that there is abuse, and it has a tendency to wear on the emotions...
I think they are afraid. Most people don't understand how much their self esteem has suffered. They are told that they are lucky to have the man and that he is doing it for their own good and that they won't do well in life without them and that they couldn't do anything without them. And after awhile.... they start to believe it. The man usually apologizes too says he sorry and won't to it again..... but then he does. I sympathize with them a lot.
they wouldn't be in abusive relationships if they had more self esteem and confidence.
I think you shouldn't judge unless you've walked a mile in their shoes.

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Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?

Its frustrating. I think you need both. I'd be lonely if I had to talk to my bf all the time. I mean yes you love your S.O (significant other) but its a much bigger world by being friends with different people.Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
I think in a friendship people tend to be more their true selves


and more accepting of the other person as they are. Whereas often in relationships people try to please the other or change the other person. That maybe what you are interpreting as effort.Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
Relationships are so different from friendships. People want love ultimately. Family is that, no matter what. You can't love a friend if they backstab you, but if your mother did then that's another complicated story. People are paranoid and untrusting nowadays (sometimes for good reason). You can't make friends a part of family, but you can marry or think of marrying a girlfriend/boyfriend.


Also, friends rarely love you or show they care as much as a boyfriend or girlfriend. If they did then the person receiving that love is very lucky.
It is easier to maintain a friendship than a relationship.





Because normal friends don't end up living together.





A relationship is a bigger ship than friendship :-))
i think because their partner is somewhat more special, and they have deeper and serious feelings for them..u know the passion of love unto them...
not all do
dandra you pretty much said it! so true
its cuz ppl love em %26amp;%26amp;%26amp; dont wanna loose then so they push aside erithang to be with them..whhen you b.u (break-up) youll be like whoa i iwas stupid chose him over her :P

What has made your relationships everlasting?

What aspects of your relationship do you attribute to your lasting relationship with your spouse. What is it about them that you couldn't live without?What has made your relationships everlasting?
Patience. lol.


We also joke around a lot and try to make each other laugh. We have set traditions to look forward to (like each year for his birthday I order cookies from his favorite childhood bakery... in Connecticut... we live in TX)


When he is here we try new things together and hang out with eachothers friends... we have a lot of the same interests (bands, sports, movies, etc)


Right now he is on his 3rd deployment (Iraq) and it is hard... but I write him a lot and we talk whenever we can. Any time I am out running errands I try to find something to send him...whether its his favorite candy or just a funny card.





What couldnt I live without? His hugs, kisses, laugh, smile, the way he touches my face. I have found myself even missing his snoring and the way he picks at his thumb. I miss him dancing in the car and singing at the top of his lungs. lol


I couldnt live without his understanding and support... hes a wonderful man and I feel very lucky to have him in my life.What has made your relationships everlasting?
Well, we are only at 13 years. I do think I have some ideas as to what really works for us in our particular situation and with our individual personalities.


#1 Commitment, loyalty, and friendship (combined). Both my husband and I are very connected via our friendship and neither one of us has yet to desire a change.


#2 Passion, we both have it for one another. When we argue, the way we love each other, and when we make love. It works for us. He's never been boring to me. He's fiery and I am feisty.


#3, each of us is frequently attentive towards the other.


#4 I stay home. My husband needs someone to take care of, as do I. Staying home is a great way to ensure that we are each playing an active role in caring for the other.


#5 Both of us are honest %26amp; talk to each other, often. I share my needs and am open to his. We talk about anything and everything we need to.





What I can't live without? Him. Everything else I am fine with!


We can all improve but he's as close as any man is ever going to get to perfect for this girl, as is.





BTW his top 2 qualities, loyalty and attentiveness.
1. let go of your own ego


2. trust


3. communication








if you can master those three, your relationship will stay pretty solid.
Honest love and trust without nagging, quarreling and fighting and giving space to each other.
Our devotion to eachother. Our trust and honesty.He loves me unconditonally; and I can be a moody wife. He has sooo much patience; and he is great with our boys.We are totally one.
my husband and i have been married for eight years. The thing that keeps me with him is that i know ive found someone who has my back no matter what happens.
re: What has made your relationships everlasting?


%26gt;%26gt; Simply KNOWLEDGE!


We both learned how to make a good relationship.........


LOL......... try it!
My asian husband is obsess with me because I'm a white woman. He showers me with attention. I'm very flattered.
Having his hand to hold and his arms to be in.

What are the 6 relationships of gas law?

Hello,





There're 4 variables for gas law (pressure, volume, temp, and # of moles). How do you write 6 algebraci equations that stating these relationships? And how do you describe them? (Like y is directly proportional to x).





Thank you! And I'll choose you as the best answer if you help me solve this!What are the 6 relationships of gas law?
uhm..is this what you're looking for:





*k=constant





*P= k/V (Pressure is indirectly proportional to Volume)


*V = kT Volume is directly proportional to Temperature)


*P = kT (Pressure is directly proportional to Temperature)





*just manipulate the equation [ P= (nRT)/V ] to get other equationsWhat are the 6 relationships of gas law?
PV = nRT





Volume varies with temp (pressure is constant)


Pressure varies with temp (volume is constant)


Volume indirectly varies with pressure (temp is constant)


Volume varies with moles (pressure and temp are constant)


Pressure varies with moles (volume and temp are constant)
1. If you have gas you won't have any relationships.

Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?

Its frustrating. I think you need both. I'd be lonely if I had to talk to my bf all the time. I mean yes you love your S.O (significant other) but its a much bigger world by being friends with different people.Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
I think in a friendship people tend to be more their true selves


and more accepting of the other person as they are. Whereas often in relationships people try to please the other or change the other person. That maybe what you are interpreting as effort.Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
Relationships are so different from friendships. People want love ultimately. Family is that, no matter what. You can't love a friend if they backstab you, but if your mother did then that's another complicated story. People are paranoid and untrusting nowadays (sometimes for good reason). You can't make friends a part of family, but you can marry or think of marrying a girlfriend/boyfriend.


Also, friends rarely love you or show they care as much as a boyfriend or girlfriend. If they did then the person receiving that love is very lucky.
It is easier to maintain a friendship than a relationship.





Because normal friends don't end up living together.





A relationship is a bigger ship than friendship :-))
i think because their partner is somewhat more special, and they have deeper and serious feelings for them..u know the passion of love unto them...
not all do
dandra you pretty much said it! so true
its cuz ppl love em %26amp;%26amp;%26amp; dont wanna loose then so they push aside erithang to be with them..whhen you b.u (break-up) youll be like whoa i iwas stupid chose him over her :P

How do I make my strong mother understand my need for submissive relationships?

My mother was a huge feminist during the 50s and 60s and owns a medium sized company and rules it with an iron fist. She does not understand my need to be submissive in my sexual relationships. Is there some way to show her or some book I can buy her to make her understand me?How do I make my strong mother understand my need for submissive relationships?
I think your best bet is to tell her that being submissive is how you express yourself sexually.





I know, you already have. I'm not saying you need to explain topping from the bottom or anything - not that I'm saying you ever do that! (Bad sub! Bad!)





But she should be able to understand that you have chosen this sexual lifestyle, that you are empowered by it, that it has nothing to do with how assertive or confident you are outside the bedroom (which I bet you are), and that it has nothing to do with societal female subjugation but with personal expression and liberation.





And no, tell her you are not just internalizing the predominant male-centered cultural bias! You are doing this for you. You are taking responsibility for your sexuality and refusing to permit the vanilla prevailing culture from dictating to you what you ';should'; like or what a relationship is ';supposed'; to be like. That though you crave abandoning yourself to His wishes in bed, crave to beg Him to take you, you refuse to cede control of your act of submission to anyone.





If she won't leave you alone then fight fire with fire: tell her what a twit ultrafeminist teacher and author Andrea Dworkin was for saying no truly liberated and actualized woman could ever like penetration. Yeah, uh-huh. Because clearly in that case your mom is also a slave to the paternal paradigm. Which she obviously isn't. Just like you obviously aren't.





Side note: I applaud you for being so open and forthright about you sexuality. Your mom seems pretty cool actually - not a lot of parents would engage their children in such a deep conversation. Yeah, she doesn't get it. But give her time. Give her time. The central message of feminism (humanism applied to both genders) is that we as people are capable of forging our own destinies. She just needs to apply her feminism more broadly - and to include you!





Cheers and have fun!How do I make my strong mother understand my need for submissive relationships?
its an intimate and private and personal too perference...you are grown up..why mum has to be in the pic?





decide and do it by yourself and your partner?

What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?

Are they scared of them? Are they friends with them?


I want serious answer people this is for a book.What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?
Many mythological versions of mermaids and their precursors lured sailors to their doom, or at least into slavery. Mermaids then could be in partnership with sharks, used by sharks to lure sailors, or could be sharks or shark-like creatures in disguise. Mermaids could also be protrayed as dolphin-like, by having a tendency to rescue sailors. Or, you could have rival races of mermaids that do both.What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?
If you're talking about factual mermaids: There aren't any, and therefore they can't have relationships with sharks.





If you're writing a fictional book, then they can have any relationship with sharks that you please.
Mermaids don't have to be scared of sharks. This is because Sharks aren't interested in them, since Mermaids don't have blood like we do, so Sharks don't smell them any more than other fish. And they're not as fast as mermaids.
the sharks won, obviously!





who wouldn't eat mermaid???
The sharks are the ';bad boys'; that the the merparents warned you about.





Bad and dangerous but oh, so sexy.

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What do you say when people enquire about your sex life and relationships?

I am a private person and I don't like explaining myself to people, only those I chose to open up with. I understand that sometimes people are curious, or just wish to help, but in most situations it serves me no purpose to get into such private matters with others. How do you deal with unwelcome enquires without sounding too harsh? What do you say when people enquire about your sex life and relationships?
It's just a subtle way of asking do you ';do it'; and if so ';how much';





It's an optional question to answered in life cause its PRIVATE!What do you say when people enquire about your sex life and relationships?
Just explain that you're not comfortable discussing those things, and try to change the subject. If they continue to press for details about private matters, tell them once again that you won't talk abou it, and if possible walk away.
Tell them you don't discuss private personal matters.
In a sarcastic yet humorous tone, ';I hook at night and strip at clubs during the day';.
';I don't kiss and tell';

Why do men get over emotional problems quicker then women in relationships?

How do men get over women so fast? Why does it take women longer to cope after a split or one night stand? It seems like we are waiting by the phone for them to call or text, and sometimes they will, but sometimes they won't.Why do men get over emotional problems quicker then women in relationships?
To be completely honest, as a guy, we dont get over relationships as fast. We just dont show it in public, therefore seeming like there is no problem. On the inside we cant get it off out chest and are feeling very much the same way as women. Maybe it depends on the guy, but thats just how it is for me. It really isnt easy for anyone in my opinion, and it takes plenty of time.





And we too wait by the phone for a call or text, trust me, we think women do the same thing...and they really do. Maybe we are in the middle of something, which is usually the reason i might take time to reply. Dont worry about this, it is a waste of time and it isnt something to worry about. But really, I dont agree with any of the other people here. This is what i think. Hope it helps!Why do men get over emotional problems quicker then women in relationships?
its a guy/girl thing


Girls: when girls are little they always spend there time reading Cinderella stories and dreaming about becoming a princess with a prince and all that stuff. i guess all that fairy tale stuff stays with them as they grow older.





Guys: when they're kids they spend their time thinking about toys and action figures they think girls have cooties, and like girls, some of those feelings stay with them as they grow older.
Lol really, us guys are pigs. Not all of us, just about 60-70% of us. But if you think about, maybe that same guy your thinking about is actually waiting for you to call or text him...I say go for it.
woman are more emotion. and guys are more physical. just how our brains differ. one day the world will all be lesbians .lol.

Why do people lie and play games at the beginning of relationships?

My sister and I just started talking to new people, and it seems like they are both playing games, and the same games at that(which is weird because they never met). The guy my sister is talking to rarely calls her, doesn't try to make time for her,when he comes to get her, it's at night. The girl I just stared talking to is the same way. I call her most of the time, and when I do she is either too busy, or she holds conversations with other people while she talks on the phone with me. She says she will call back and never calls. Both of these people approached me and my sister asking for a relationship,we didn't approach them. So, why are they playing games?Why do people lie and play games at the beginning of relationships?
Shallowness, insecurity, being manipulative towards getting what they want - so my advice to you and your sis is ';Lose them';Why do people lie and play games at the beginning of relationships?
well indrep I was gonna say that you need to tell them if you wanna be with this (foxy lady) %26lt; hand motions%26gt; you either show me some respect or I'll show you the door. Then I thought ooo


I should call the Woman I was with last Thursday.





Anyway maybe the people you and your sis are with want to build a relationship, not rush into things too fast, or whatever.





- ( insert your own adjective) and / or %26lt;motions%26gt; ;)

How important should your parents option be on the people you have relationships with?

I was recently engaged to to someone that my parents practically hated and pressured me the whole time that I was with them.





My parents have wanted me to marry the same person since the 4th grade, so now that the other relationship is over they want me to try with to be with the person they chose.





How important should what they want be? They raised me, fed me, clothed me....IDK what to think.How important should your parents option be on the people you have relationships with?
People who live their lives to suit others, are rarely happy. I love my mother dearly, and I will always be thankful for my upbringing and that I never lacked for anything that I needed...however, that doesn't give her the right to dictate my actions/choices in my adult life.





You do not owe your parents anything just because they fed and clothed you. They chose to have children, and thus accepted that responsibility. You are an adult and have the right to live your life as you see fit. If they don't like it, that's their problem. You will never be happy making your decisions to suit them and not yourself.





My lover is black (I'm white). It would kill my mother to know this. However, if our relationship moves into something more serious I will tell her...and no matter how she reacts, I will not change my feelings toward him or leave him because she is unhappy with it (assuming she would be). I would let her know I love her, appreciate her, and hope she can be happy for me but that my life is mine to live and I'm going to live it as I see fit.





I hope you do what makes YOU happy...if you aren't interested in 4th grade girl, then tell your parents that. If they push it, ignore the issue and refuse to discuss it with them. Say ';this is how I feel and I'd appreciate you allowing me to live my life as I see fit';.





Good luck!

How is market psychology related with stock market? and how does intermarket relationships play into it?

Is there any recorded data than can be found, where can see how the prices of stock market follow the psychology of overall market? and also, how does one market affect another? is there relationships? what about global relationships?How is market psychology related with stock market? and how does intermarket relationships play into it?
Stock prices REFLECT market psychology - i.e. the sum total of all the participants' action - and are reflected in stock charts.

Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?

Could you live without having romantic relationships, if not why?


Is it true that being constantly single can be mentally unhealthy for you?Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?
I know lots of single people (mainly women) who have happy and fulfilled lives while others married to control freaks look like they couldn't care less if a bolt of lightening took them out tomorrow!





I think it depends whether you are male or female. I think males were found to be less healthy and die earlier than those in a partnership while females actually live longer.





Personally I think all that would change if you had a loving pet.Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?
Hi MinJacp


Two questions for the price of one, tut tut you'll have big brother on to you.


(a). Yes one can live a happy and contented life without romantic relationships, but we're not designed to do so, that is why God Created Adam and Eve. God tells us to actively seek a 'mate' and multiply.


(b) As to the point you're trying to make about being constantly single being unhealthy or at least not consistent with a healthy mental attitude. Whilst it may be accurate to say that living your life in isolation is not con-formant to a healthy life style, that does not mean however that one must be in a romantic relationship to be happy, fulfilled and com-pus mantis. There are many different forms of relationship, that can provide mutual gratification, that is to say can be satisfactory on both sides of the relationship. Let's face it, if both sides of the relationship are not content then the relationship is


not working or not healthy in any case.


Personally speaking due to events that have occurred in my life I can't trust women and have no desire to enter into a same sex relationship therefore I find that having a friendly relationship with God keeps me on the right path and though I do have mental health issues it is not due to the fact that I'm not in a romantic relationship.
Any form of relationship can be unhealthy, just as a complete lack of a relationship can be unhealthy too.





It depends upon the person in question and the likely persons that s/he is likely to be involved with.





Look at it this way, water keeps you alive ....when you drink it. However, it can also kill you (eg Drowning).





So, when you ask 'Is it possible', of course it is ....a 'possibility', just as it is NOT possible to get to the Moon because (in my Grandmothers logic) 'No one has been there before'.





Sash.
Hey =],


In my opinion I think I really cannot , and a BIG cannot live without relationships, Well, I guess you will be able to live a happy life without relationships.... but , it gets depressing seeing your friends in a relationship when you're not, trust me I really have had this feeling .. so many times =[ .


And Yes sorry to say but , being constantly single CAN be mentally unhealthy for you it gets VERY depressing... but and there is a big but, if you REALLY don't want to be in a relationship then go buy a pet .. like a Dog or something, it helps =] .


Good Luck!





-Jas,xox


Hope I Helped x
I think it depends on the person. Some people are very needy and need to have a lot of friends and romantic relationships to make them feel like they are not alone. On the other hand, there are people who are very independent and focused more on life choices than relationships, and they are happy with just having many good friends.
I think it is possible. Just focus on being happy, and the right person may just come your way =]





How to Master the Art of Hapiness:





http://www.ehow.com/how_5074185_master-a鈥?/a>





Don't worry, be happy =]
You could but yes it is true, people who live alone, tend to live shorter than people who don't





That is why single people have dogs
i could live happy without having a relationship. but, i get depressed seeing all my friends in relationships and such.
keep asking questions on the internet instead of having real friends and you'll eventually find out.
yeah its possible ,
think about nuns and monks

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How do you handle that sick to your stomach feeling in relationships?

like if you get in a bad fight, think you may get dumped, you get jealous, etc. there is that nauseating feeling in the stomach, i don't know what to do when i start to get these feelings.How do you handle that sick to your stomach feeling in relationships?
Fix the trust and communication issue. the thing that causes those feelings is the idea that you don't trust that your girlfriend/boyfriend is faithful to you. The way I've always dealt with arguments is the idea that if someone was to die after I hung up on them because I was pissed off, I could never forgive myself for being an idiot and not settling it as soon as possible. Don't watch your words around your partner because your worried about what they may say, let them know exactly how you feel about everything.How do you handle that sick to your stomach feeling in relationships?
Pepto Bismol.
talk to a trusted friend.

How do i keep relationships on kudos the game?

Im playing kudos the pc game and i am dating someone on it, can the relationships go further than dating? And how do i keep the relationship because they dont like doing things all the time and they dont like much!How do i keep relationships on kudos the game?
btw is ur last name mclaffity cuz if it is i no u x

How do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?

I'm interested in this guy who is from Italy and is currently living in my town... But I'm unsure how to approach him romantically because it seems Italians go about older teen relationships differently.





What's different? Do they overall move faster? THANKSHow do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?
I'd take your time if I were you. Don't be too brassy, don't get drunk on a date, take things slowly.





I'm not suggesting you are brassy, alcoholic or 'of dubious morals'!! But I know that Italian men generally don't appreciate these things.How do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?
Depends on the age of each individual. Usually, Italian men and women, go out on dates, we like the whole ';wine and dine'; experience, we like to ';seduce'; the person we are attracted to.





To the first answerer: Ma di che cosa stai parlando? Non hai capito bene la domanda?
Don't worry and be yourself... if you have a different behavior (from your behavior with american people) with this guy, he could misunderstand you. We aren't so different from you... we aren't aliens! ;-)





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mistress? are you crazy?
Well they consider having mistresses to be normal and not a big deal

How to improve the relationships between pharmacists and doctors?

!How to improve the relationships between pharmacists and doctors?
Have them meet in person./

Do you believe most relationships are based on social exchange theory?

This means we only do things because something is coming back to us. Also how can I get people to help me and do things for me when I help them?Do you believe most relationships are based on social exchange theory?
Social exchange theory is a useful but not a sufficient approach to understanding social relationships. It is useful in understanding a lot of social behaviour but there are at least two ways in which it fails:


(a). It omits the concept of power so the broader social relationships between major corporations their employees, their overseas cheap labor, their customers and with government, cannot be adequately interpreted through exchange theory alone.


This impacts on us in our own everyday lives too. For example think of the day to day impact of the problems of


-not being to meet home loan repayments


-increased costs of petrol (gas)


-negotiating work hours that fit with the needs of the ordinary family.


.


(b) in addition your point about the exclusion of reasons other than self interest affecting our day to day relationships is a good one. For example did you see in the TV coverage of the marathon race in Beijing yesterday that one of the runners passed a bottle of water to his competitor without any likelihood of such a favour being returned So even in situations in which we'd expect people to be entirely self interested, Social Exchange theory is not sufficient...





How to make social exchange theory work for you? Perhaps


a)by using it as a long term strategy as well as an immediate tactic.


b) keeping this strategy for formal relationships with your employer or with bureaucracies..


None of us like to feel we are being used by our friends.


Do you believe most relationships are based on social exchange theory?
Yes i think relationships are based on social exchange theory. How can you love someone who doesnt love you back, or someone who doesnt put in the same effort you do into a relationship.


when you help others you shouldnt expect anything in return. If you did that would be more like a bargain.

Why are the problematic relationships more dificult to get over?

I am a 31 year old woman. I just got out of a 1 year long seriously problematic relationship with a guy. We were way to different to ever make it work and that is very clear to both of us. Still, it is the hardest thing I ever had to do: Leave him and move on. When we had so many problems I would have thought I would be relieved, but I am completly destroyed and wonder why a hard relationship is so hard to leave?Why are the problematic relationships more dificult to get over?
It's impact left a imprint on you emotional nerve endings. He touched you seriously and the desire to stay was destroyed because of the problem of the relationship with him. It's always harder to leave something deep down you wish had been different. A wrong turn here and there making this null and void. Now you are left without being relieved and replenished. It will take time to return to some normalcy. A better guy w'o a problem will be your blessing for endurance.......(Life for you has to return to some fairness after all)Why are the problematic relationships more dificult to get over?
Sure, your most welcome....

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Because along with finding forgiveness for him, you have to forgive yourself for the time you spent with him.





Maybe for putting up with things you think you shouldn't have.





Maybe you worked extra hard to fix it all and it still didn't work.
you stuck around longer and dealt with more crap than you normally would. therefore, you put more of an effort into the relationship, which means that you cared more.
If it weren't problematic, we wouldn't leave.





We get used to the drama and at some point may even need it.
We are creatures of habit and it takes about 28 day's to create a habit, bad habits sneak up on us and good habits have to be created,they both take the same time to set. Most see habits as a physical thing and don't see that habits start as a thought' there is a 5 step proses to healthy thought. First we get a THOUGHT and we have thousands of thoughts every day and it depends on the second part of the proses EMOTE, this is were we rape the thought in emotion our emotions control our memory and this is were the problem can start. We can get caught in a loop of think and emote and not get to the third part of the proses which is SEEK %26amp; SEARCH It is important that we don't carry our emotional thoughts into this part of the proses as if we do it can block us from seeing a clear picture, We think in pictures and not words and seek %26amp; search is were we can access our pictures. the more emotion connected to the picture the clearer we see, this is why it is easier to help others with a problem. Because we are not personally connected to there emotions we can use seek %26amp; search without our personal emotions getting in the way we can see a clearer picture to the problem. If we can stop thinking emotionally then we can move into seek %26amp; search and give ourselves good advise if not then its were depression starts we get stuck in a loop of the first 2 stages and when we try to use seek %26amp; search its clouded by bad emotions. If we move into s%26amp;s without identerfing the power of emote we can manafest things that arn't real. If we can use the first 3 steps of thought to our advantage then we can move into the 4th proses of thought which is ACTION this is were we can act out our thoughts with converdence and do something or say something. When we get to this point of the proses we have learnt something and created Knowelage or knowing and that completes the 5 step proses of one thought. We all need to learn how to get over ourselves through acceptance we create understanding just accept your dessission and move on. I hope you have learnt something about yourself and don't repeat the things that have lead you to this point in your life Personal Development is the key learn to understand yourself before you can understant others. The way we grow is to Know .

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What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?

A couple of my friends have girlfriends who are also my friends. The girls and sweet the guys are swell but looking from the outside in their relationships are rough and sometimes absolutely ridiculous.





Some of the drama that they have just makes me think they should try dating boys. Lol. Just once. They might like it better. Haha.





Do any of you think the same sometimes?What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?
I know that I was dating girls to partially cover up/lie to myself about my sexuality, and a lot of my relationships ended badly. Then I came out to myself and came clean about my sexuality and am loving life. I know looking out for guys is more fun than for girls, and there is this one guy at work. Yeah, lets just say I think I'm in love.What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?
I've never thought switching lanes is the answer to guys in crappy relationships (hey, it could be? 0_o), but this week's been WROUGHT with my guy friends spilling their problems on me.


I guess that's what I get for being the Lesbian Voice of Reason. :)





I have two friends who are sickeningly sweet on the outside, but if you're around one of them alone all they do is talk about hating the other. It's pretty sad.
Nope. If there's one thing the gay community doesn't need any more of, it's people prone to drama.

What is a good title for a lab report on mass relationships in a chemical reaction?

The reaction in the experiment is: Na2CO3+2HCl----%26gt;CO2+H2O+2NaClWhat is a good title for a lab report on mass relationships in a chemical reaction?
';Mass Relationships of a Chemical Reaction';

How can ppl find the time to concentrate on studying and relationships?

In movies, people are in year 12, and they always seem to be worrying about who they like, and dating but no one seems bothered about exams or anything. My parents always said year 12 exams are the most important of my school because it gets me into college. They say college is when people can relax and stuff, but it seems the opposite to me.How can ppl find the time to concentrate on studying and relationships?
Have you tried studying with that certain someone or cutting back on the amount of time with them to study. Its true that senior year exams are the most important and you shouldn't take the easy classes that year, instead take challenging ones so you are prepared for the exams.


You don't have to take the most difficult ones because you become way to stressed out and this may lead back to relationship problem.How can ppl find the time to concentrate on studying and relationships?
Probably because a lot of people can't stop thinking about sex whereas I am still a virgin and I'm 19(believe it or not) and I'm in no rush to change that. Personally I am more interested in sorting out my career that getting laid or having a relationship.

Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?

Please help me Guys %26amp; Girls! Who are the best lovers and romantic male american partners in California?


Lately i found out that guys from California can be fit and tall and educated. I am naurally good looking, a performance artist and i take excellent care of my self and i am fit lean and hot, so i do not an obese american for husband.





Can good looking americans males between 36 and 40 also be good lovers and good romantic partners, who are committed to the relationship, or they are mostly after just sex?Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
I think you shouldn't put men into groups. It all depends on the person. Sex is one of the basic human needs, and most men do make that their top priority, but not all men do. Just try and find his motives. My advice would be to not have sex and if that bothers him, then he is only after sex. If he is truly into you he can wait until you are married to him, if you get married.Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
Compliments about yourself are more credible when someone else other than yourself is giving them.


American guys of all ages are and can be in serious relationships.


Relationships are based on more than romance and good sex with our American Men.
Honey, with that attitude your not going to get anything better than the guys who are just as shallow as you. And yes, they will probably only be interested in just sex.

Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?

Please help me Guys %26amp; Girls! Who are the best lovers and romantic male american partners in California?


Lately i found out that guys from California can be fit and tall and educated. I am naurally good looking, a performance artist and i take excellent care of my self and i am fit lean and hot, so i do not an obese american for husband.





Can good looking americans males between 36 and 40 also be good lovers and good romantic partners, who are committed to the relationship, or they are mostly after just sex?Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
I think you shouldn't put men into groups. It all depends on the person. Sex is one of the basic human needs, and most men do make that their top priority, but not all men do. Just try and find his motives. My advice would be to not have sex and if that bothers him, then he is only after sex. If he is truly into you he can wait until you are married to him, if you get married.Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
Compliments about yourself are more credible when someone else other than yourself is giving them.


American guys of all ages are and can be in serious relationships.


Relationships are based on more than romance and good sex with our American Men.
Honey, with that attitude your not going to get anything better than the guys who are just as shallow as you. And yes, they will probably only be interested in just sex.

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How to biochemical comparison different from other methods of determining evolutionary relationships?

Please help with a complete answer and explain. ahh im so confused!How to biochemical comparison different from other methods of determining evolutionary relationships?
Biochemical relationships are limited to comparing living life forms and their genetic relationships. Extinct forms of life must be compared using more traditional methods.How to biochemical comparison different from other methods of determining evolutionary relationships?
this is sooo weird! i googled this question and it brought me here- you asked this question one year ago and on my homeowrk it has the exact same thing...were you doing an amino acid sequences to determine evolutionary relationships packet?

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The use of biochemical analysis of DNA and proteins is nothing new in regards to this topic.





http://evonet.sdsc.edu/evoscisociety/wha鈥?/a>


http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/About/primer鈥?/a>


http://www.talkorigins.org/faqs/behe/pub鈥?/a>


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How can I stop my parents from getting into my relationships?

I am an 18 year old girl living with overcontrolling parents. I am interested in someone 8 years older. How can I get them to stop being so controlling and let me date him without meeting him?How can I stop my parents from getting into my relationships?
By proving trustworthiness to them.


Yes.

Why does the American society now look down on committed relationships?

It seems like casual sex is the new fad these days. Those who want commitment are considered ';immature';, ironically. Basically because they're living in a ';fantasy'; world.Why does the American society now look down on committed relationships?
I think you are very wrong.


Casual sex is only perceived as the norm, mostly by young people. That is because they have bought into all the sex in the media. Sex sells right?


How can someone who wants to be in a committed relationship be looked down on as ';immature';. I would say that those people are the more mature. These are people who can stick to their beliefs without giving into what young people may think is ';cool';. Its not cool to just sleep around with people. I actually feel sorry for the ones that do, because they will never be able to experience what it is like to have sex with for the forst time with someone that you love. It is the best feeling in the world.Why does the American society now look down on committed relationships?
I dot think Americans feel that way. I think the very fact that gay marriage is such a hot button issue (whichever way you stand on the issue) mean that lots of people are considering how to address Committed Relationships. Casual sex went out in the 80's when AIDS became a concern for most of us.
I don't. I look down on discrimination. Calf prop 8 let's people vote on a discriminatory law. I am also looking down on religious theory being part of American law. Both need to be stopped before they kill again. Casual sex on the other hand has been known to work for me. That was pre AIDs.

Why do romantic relationships trigger a relapse of clinical depression?

I suffer from major depressive disorder and I seem to do really well mentally when I am single, but as soon as I get into a romantic relationship, my depression comes back full force and my insecurities pop back up. Does anyone else have this problem? I'm trying to gain more insight into why this happens and what I can do to manage it.Why do romantic relationships trigger a relapse of clinical depression?
If a person was hurt and betrayed in his or her primary love/family relationships in childhood, the person learns that emotional closeness brings pain, and often when such a person tries as an adult to get close to other people, subconsciously the mind regresses to that earlier time and begins to re-experience and expect that pain. For a normal person, closeness feels good. For an abused person, closeness may bring depression.Why do romantic relationships trigger a relapse of clinical depression?
You are not confident that's why this happens to you. Just gain your confidence by doing things like looking your self in mirror. If you do not possess body than built it to gain more confidence and try avoiding clashes in romance.
Because romantic relationships carry with them high expectations and are absolutely no guarantee of anything.

How do I correct the patterns of being in unhealthy relationships with men?

It seems that I definitely have issues when it comes to dating.. I seem to attract unavailable men and then on top of that I put up with it. I'm a smart well rounded woman who has a great head on my shoulders but where do I dig to find out where my esteem issues come from because it's surely not on the surface. I want to correct this pattern because all I long for is a healthy loving relationship with an available man..How do I correct the patterns of being in unhealthy relationships with men?
I think the bigger question is... why are you attracted to unavailable men? You are choosing these guys for a reason. Although the relationships may hurt, there may be a part of you that is way more comfortable avoiding intimacy and that's why you're choosing them.





BTW- I have been struggling with this very issue for years. I now (finally) realize the fact my dad is an alcoholic contributed to my intimacy issues (among other things). Maybe you had to deal with something while growing up that has influenced your comfort level when dealing with intimacy and trust.





I think if you address why you're avoiding intimacy, you'll begin on a path towards finding a fulfilling, healthy, trusting relationship.How do I correct the patterns of being in unhealthy relationships with men?
You need to learn to be happy with yourself. You do that by learning to be by yourself for now. You might be trying to hard. I think the more you learn to be by yourself, the more attractive you become. Ask yourself why do you need to be in a relationship. Your self worth is not defined by the relationship you are end. Take a class or join a club and do something new other than worry being in a relationship. The more you feel better about yourself the more selective you will be about the guys you date. You will keep getting stepped on until you get the lesson. If the men you are attracted to are not available, you have enough experience to know that within five minutes of conversation. So quit putting yourself through the pain.








Good luck and Godspeed to ya!
You don't need to dig, you may find something else you don't like. Look at yourself and realize you deserve better. You have value. you are awesome. You deserve the best out there, and don't give up or give in. Make a list of what you are really looking for (yes I mean write it down) an don't give up/in till you find it!

What would be the best technique for determining the evolutionary relationships among several closely related ?

What would be the best technique for determining the evolutionary relationships among several closely related species, each of which still contains living members?





A)examining the fossil record


B)comparison of homologous structures


C)comparative embryology


D)comparative anatomy


E)DNA or RNA analysis





I think it's E.What would be the best technique for determining the evolutionary relationships among several closely related ?
The answer is B. Darwin did it himself by comparing a bat's wing to a person's arm, to find an evolutionary link. (A human arm to a bat's wing is comparing homologous structures)

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How has the relationships between parents and children changed over the last 50 years?

I would like some help with my Sociology work, cheers.How has the relationships between parents and children changed over the last 50 years?
Seems to me that parents do less parenting. Heck a kid is lucky to even have two parents. I would look up the stats on children being born out of wedlock, those in divorced families and those living with their bio parents with no half siblings.





More children are put in day care then back 50 years ago.





Parents are more self-centered now days.How has the relationships between parents and children changed over the last 50 years?
Hmmmm...I think parents these days want to be more involved with their children instead of the old ';Seen but not heard'; theory. It's good to listen to your children and make them feel a part of the family and that their opinions matter....but some parents nowdays go a little too far in trying to ';please'; their children instead of staying with limits and punishments. You can balance both ..it is possible.
Parents seem less involved in their children's lives. There is too much pressure nowadays for the mothers to go back to work and shove their kids off onto someone else to be raised, especially after either 6 weeks or after the child starts school.
Parents used to control their children. Today, children control their parents. As with any other topic, it doesn't apply to absolutely everyone... but most.
i know my son-i am 60-wants to know what i spend-he says i am spending his inheritance i am giving my assets to a food pantry

How important do you think it is to respect the relationships and bonds that people share with each other?

You can do a 1 to 10 if you like, 10 being the highest.





I'd personally go for 10.How important do you think it is to respect the relationships and bonds that people share with each other?
Very important because that is what makes us function in society. We all have the need to belong and when we bond with the people we care about the most, it creates a sense of acceptance.

Ladies, in your relationships who is usually dominant you or your partner, or is it even?

Just that I have noticed in several friends' relationships that women often have the dominant personality. Thank you for answering.Ladies, in your relationships who is usually dominant you or your partner, or is it even?
I'm usually the dominant person in my relationships,

How bad is Venus Square saturn when it comes to relationships?

Since saturn restricts everything it touches, would this make the person, well.. Have really really shitty luck in love?





What challenges would this person have to over come?





(not my aspect, just browsing through charts.)How bad is Venus Square saturn when it comes to relationships?
This person feels constantly judged and found to be lacking. Can't believe someone would be interested and tries to find out why, thus causing uneasiness within the relationship. Needs volumes of reinforcement and is high maintenance throughout the life of the relationship. Needs to find their own value rather than looking to the other to validate their worthiness.How bad is Venus Square saturn when it comes to relationships?
i think i have this..cant remember..but yes i heard it can be bad.,..it means that we take relaitonships personal and social seriously...like we don't know how to b light-hearted. But you'd need to know in which house this falls...but good question id like to know more about this aspect :)





p.s sorry if i didnt help much!

What are the most important aspects of building good customer relationships?

Honesty. Even if it is not what they want to hear, most customers will respect %26amp; trust you more if you tell them the truth.





Another one is follow through or follow up. Saying you will do something and then not doing it is the worst. And after a task is completed, check with the customer to see if all went as expected or if there is anything else you can do.





Last, return phone calls. Don't you hate it when you call and leave someone a message and that person never calls you back? Customers hate it too.What are the most important aspects of building good customer relationships?
Look the customer in the eye, be polite, be efficient, friendly and smile!What are the most important aspects of building good customer relationships?
Looking hot.


Don't listen to Jennifer,following through is worse than not washing and you will not be popular AT ALL :-
Sincere honesty.
Natural smile
Wash at least once a week

Do you think relationships can work out long term if?

There is a twenty year age difference between them?


A 32 and a 52 year old?Do you think relationships can work out long term if?
HECK YEAH!!!! %26lt;3 My Hubby is 45 %26amp; I am 21 (that's a 24 yr difference) %26amp; we have been happy together for going on 3 years (that includes dating time). I can't imagine being with anyone else! But honestly at times it feels like it takes more effort than say if I were in a relationship with someone my own age. All %26amp; all if I had to do it again I'd pick him any day of the week!





Good Luck!Do you think relationships can work out long term if?
It's certainly not easy-but older men are way more mature %26amp; they know what they want %26amp; how to treat a woman! I've had a million doubts! If the good out weighs the bad stick it out for a little longer- I did %26amp; I'm glad I gave it a shot rather than going for the ';easier'; choice! Good Luck! Xoxo

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Yes it can. The people who use the line about how the younger one will be dead are just being stupid. You never know when you'll die so you shouldn't live your life like that. If someone makes you happy and you are both consenting adults (which obviously at those ages you would be) then I say go for it. I have a good friend who married her husband when she was 22. He was 52. They've been married for 11 years now and are very happy together. (Really one of the best couples I have ever seen) Live your life the way you want to and don't worry about what other people say and then your relationship will work out just fine.
Yes. My aunt was 20 something and she married a 80 something guy. They had a daughter and everything. He died, and she remarried, she's now 40-50 married to a 80-90 year old guy, their marriage is fine. Their love life is fine. Their sex life is fine, so since I have witness bigger age differences than yours, I think you'll be fine.
No... because in the long term... you'll be 60 and they'll be dead.





It just doesn't make any sense to want to be in a relationship with someone that even in a best case scenario, you are looking at being alone for the last 20 years of your life?
A 20 year age difference for those over 30 isn't the same as a 20 year difference under 30.





There's no reason why this relationship can't work out - at least not from an age standpoint.
Any relationship has a chance of working out or not working out; it has to do with a lot more than age.
Yes-at this age you both are mature and know what you want in life so I think it would work out regardless of age.
Well it may work out long-term for the 52 year old
yes, age is just a number, its how both parties interact on an emotional level that counts
In your case 3 years maximum... and you leave him!
Has anyone seen my black dental floss?
I'm 23 and my husband is 42. We've been together for 5 years so far.

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Why do people have such a mechanical view of romantic relationships?

It's something i've noticed on yahoo answers. It seems to me that the comunication between men and women is a myth. So what happened to being friends AND lovers?Why do people have such a mechanical view of romantic relationships?
Mechanically speaking...In order for an engine(relationship) to run properly, Not only must there be fuel(passion), air(space), and spark(love), But there must be a firm foundation for the engine(relationship) to be mouted to so it doesn't vibrate out from under the hood and look for a better car to propel. Friends and lovers? How about we look at the prospect of every good marriage...A union of two folks who learned how to integrate friendship and love into a perfect union...(No marriage is perfect..but compromise makes up for that truth.)Why do people have such a mechanical view of romantic relationships?
When I think mechanical I think of cars and robots. Whats a mechanical view? Maybe communication between men and women is only a myth to you. your kinda weird.I think you need to get some kissy kissy action before you go and have some sort of a Mechanical meltdown..............

What gives so many men the idea to settle for relationships?

It absolutley breaks my heart to see guys signing on and shacking up with these women at such frequency. Its like seeing somone burn their hand on a flame, then a second later stick their hand right back on. Hopefully a few of you guys read this today. {There is nothing gained from being in a relationship with a woman; and in fact much is lost}





Women hinder a man financially, ruin relationships with his friends, hurt his personal ambitions- I didnt even mention how it unnerves a man personally. I see this guys out with their girlfriends, and the analogy comes to mind of going to the beach, you know enjoying yourself having a great time for a few hours. Then at the end of the day you grab a bucketfull of sand and take it home with you. Like the sand isn't going to be there next time you come. This sounds silly right? This is exactly what a lot of guys are doing with these women.





There are millions of women right out your front door, why in the hell do you need to lock one up?What gives so many men the idea to settle for relationships?
They want a family, children, someone to take care of them, and something with meaning.





When they grow up (which I'm sure is not something you know about), they want these things. Real men don't want emptiness in their lives.





Women are not community property. You're obviously a deeply disturbed little pig.What gives so many men the idea to settle for relationships?
Misogyny is a mental and social disease.
Men just need to be more aware, more selective.
Im with you and gunfan
Those are good points. The reason for these problems is feminism. Women today think men ';owe'; them so they take as much as possible from us and give as little as possible back.





Know what I do? I make women WORK to catch me. I make her invest time and energy so its not so easy for her to walk away. If your smart you will make her invest more that you invest... especially emotionally.
Hey, if all you want is an emtpy, emotionless sex-only relationship, there's no reason for relationship.





But if someone desires something that actually has meaning, perhaps that's why they ';settle'; for relationships.
It is better to love and lost than never loved at all .





We all get hurt . Men now more than ever due to the political socialogical climate.I know where you are comming from.For the foreseeable future men will get the raw end of the deal .





That doesnt mean we should not risk .


That does not mean we should not dare.





What it does mean is a lot of us men will have to get vasectomies .A lot of us men have payed the price and have gotten trapped . A lot of have had our finances ruined .There is no denying men are at a disadvantage here. We are going to have to adapt to protect our interest while still being human .Still being able to be thinking and feeling beings with all the good and the bad that it entails.





Men and women are social creatures .For better or worse we need each other .





It is not how many times you get knocked down . It is how many times you get back up.
well from what i had experienced, my bf wanted to get married, have a family blah balh blah, moved who knows where, blah blah blah, all because he saw how his mama and dad, have been 2gether for 28 years and have gone up and down but are still with each other and a happy family.... sharing eachothers feelings all the time, have dinner on the table and eat as a family, well sorry babe that wasn't me :D
What gives so many men the idea to settle for relationships?





Er, they grow up??





Also, they want children and a family and unconditional love.





Of course you have a right to your opinion and maybe relationships are not for you....which is cool.....but for some guys, a family and loving wife can be very rewarding.





Otherwise, when you are 70, alone, wrinkled and on the beach, there will be no-one who will sit by your side.....
Men should just stay single, Men always get screw in a relationship, especially in a marriage.





MEN PLEASE DON'T GET MARRIED!
I have so many things to say; thing that may surprise you, yet I understand this is a men only discussion and I respect that.


Allow me to say one thing and one thing only if you please.


I have never told a man who he can and cannot be friends with, and I will never do that.


Thank you for listening. I understand I am putting myself on the line because I can't physically prove it.