How should women pick up on these subtle signs and cues?
Thank you, I would like some women here to share their opinions.What is your opinion on domestic violence, and how do think women should get out of abusive relationships?
Domestic abuse is obviously an awful thing. I think you are very quick to link it directly to men abusing women, I don't know if you are simply not interested in men being abused or just don't care about them, but women abusing men is becoming more and more common and has always been more common than anyone might think, percentage wise, it is reported far less than when men abuse women. As for the signs, well theres is no way of telling unless you experience it. It would be discriminating to look for possible signs of a domestic abuser; a person either is one or isn't and it doesn't matter what they look like, how tall they are, how rough or clean they look or where they work.What is your opinion on domestic violence, and how do think women should get out of abusive relationships?
It's bad.
With their feet.
Personalty characteristics are jealousy, obsessivness, possessiveness, over controling, selfish, inconsiderate, mean, critical. They are verbally, emotionally, psychologically and physically abusive. Manipulative bahaviour. Most likely they are heavy drinkers or drug users. They are not secure within themselves. They have intimacy and relationship issues. They are liars and cheats. And cowards.
For women stuck in such a horrible situation, it is never as simple as just walking out the door. There are usually children involved and if he has all of the above personality traits, guess who keeps and spends the money?
These may be warning signs:
Not to mention must of the violence against women and children is not reported.
Does he ';just'; slap you? Has he beaten you up ';only'; 3 or 4 times?
Does he call you derogatory names and analyze your personality in a belittling manner?
After he abused you, does he then suffer intense feelings of guilt and remorse, apologizes profusely, and overwhelms you with gifts and promises to never again make you suffer?
Is he extremely possessive, jealous of your involvements and relationships outside of your marriage? Does he phone you several times a day just to ';check'; on you and expects you to make him the center of your life?
Does he become furious when you do not obey him, or sometimes, for no reason at all? Is he constantly finding fault with the way you dress, act in public, or show him love? Does he often accuse you of infidelity?
Was he emotionally and/or physically abused as a child?
Did his father beat his mother?
Does he abuse alcohol, drugs, or other mood-altering substances?
Does he destroy property or hurt pets?
Is he angry at life in general? Does he feel cheated by society, his parents, his co-workers?
Was he ever the victim of trauma, such as combat, multiple car accidents, or child sexual assault, for which he has not received professional help?
Does he hold traditional ideas about male and female roles and adhere to these ideas inflexibly?
Is there any possibility that you might be a battered woman? Even if you only slightly suspect that this might be the case, seek help as soon as possible.
My opinion on domestic violence is that if it happens once, the aggressor should be put in prison, if it happens twice the abused needs to seek psychiatric help immediately.
Men and women can both be victims of domestic violence.
I wonder if there is a study that shows the amount of domestic violence toward men there is that goes unreported.....
They should get out when the signs first start. For instance, if the guy becomes a little too jealous of the time his wife is spending with her girlfriends or her family, but not him, then it's time to make preparations to leave. If a guy is always hovering over the woman, never allowing her a chance to be herself or enjoy her life, constantly telling her the things she does is a waste of time, that's another indication.
Absolutely not tolerated! Women should be respected and never be abused! Never in my life would I abuse a women. It is totally unacceptable.
I think domestic violence is unacceptable. Against both women AND men.. don't make the mistake of thinking women are the only victims in this.
If the woman is as sexist as you then they should leave any relationship because they are going to get slapped.
Maybe she should learn, as you should, that the world does not revolve around a sexist women victimhood mentality and that both men and women suffer from many things alike.
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