im still a teenager so i don't know if when adults date it's any different from teenagers but i heard its sort of the same and different. like for teens, some date for fun, some date for serious relationships, some date to have sex. and i noe throughout a teenagers life, they could have dated like 10 times alrdy. are adult relationships like this also or do most adults want something more serious besides sex, popularity, and numbers?What is the difference between teenager relationships and adult relationships?
I'm not really sure. To be honest, I've never really thought about it that way...What is the difference between teenager relationships and adult relationships?
Adults can date for the same reasons, love, to build a family, to gain status, or just to have sex.
The difference is that adults have to worry about mortgages, bills, other expenses, jobs, etc. Worrying about whose parents aren't home so you can have sex is much different from worrying about what house to buy and how to divide the property. Adult relationships simply come with the stresses of being an adult.
Most teenagers don't understand how insignificant their bf/gf relationships are. It doesn't prepare you for adult relationships or situations.
hahaha, yeah, you dont get ';popularity'; so much just by dating alot of people as an adult. (who are you going to be popular with?)
It's alot different. Teen dating, youre learning the ropes, your having awkward first experiences, all that. Adult dating, you start trying to find someone to spend your life with (once you know what you want out of life, something most teens dont know).
Dont get me wrong though. There are still plenty of ';adults'; that date a girl to get laid, or date a guy to get a free dinner. hahaha.
I think most adults have relationships because they want and need a partner to go through life with them. its really nice to have someone else there to give you emotional and financial support. and in turn, you do your best to provide it to them. you help each other out, you're there for each other. you go out and do romantic things and have fun, but you can still be serious and responsible. adults want to be in a relationship with somebody who wants to go do the same things that they want to. its basically like a best friend on a whole new level.
';some date for fun, some date for serious relationships, some date to have sex';-- there are many adults who date for these reasons also. but once you have yourself figured out, once you can get out there and see a bit of the world for yourself, you can really give yourself to someone. a really good relationship, the ones that last, are the ones that can combine all the good qualities of the reasons you gave for teenage relationships.
popularity is not important. it is what kind of impact you have on people's lives. how kind and generous are you? the people that people like most, are nice and caring. there were two types of people in my high school, those everyone knew, and those that everyone liked. and believe me just because people know who you are doesn't mean they're going to like you.
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