What is it with women being so selfish in relationships?

I either hear from the women around me or read from here or elsewhere how self centered women are in relationships, how it's all about them. What is up with this? A relationship is about two people together not a woman and her man servant.What is it with women being so selfish in relationships?
Most women just like having control over their men for non sense reasons such as being insecure.





I agree though, i think to make a relationship work it has to involve two people. But then again, i guess if the relationship WAS working, they wouldn't be asking questions on yahoo answers :]What is it with women being so selfish in relationships?
I guess I'd need some concrete examples of what you're talking about, but I do see that a lot of women get away with being really high-maintenance, that's true.





I think there could be several reasons for this. One could be that in every rebalance of power, the pendulum seems to swing way too far to the opposite side of the spectrum for a while, before settling to a more balanced motion between the two sides.





We are only a couple of generations away from women virtually having no value at all, aside from how they accesorized and/or reflected the life of a man, and one generation into women sometimes overreacting to that, to becoming overly focused on what a woman wants, needs, and deserves, rather than what she should give.





Another, less weighty speculation is that just as many women inexplicably prefer the bad boy who makes them cry but makes their hearts race and their loins tingle over the nice guy who just wants to know them deeply in every sense, and cherish them, many men will put up with a great deal from a beautiful woman who treats them like crap before they'd secure themselves a not-so-attractive woman who has only love to give.






Women are very selfish! like little children and I think that the typical man has half to blame for it!! More like spoiled brats at times! Not to sound too harsh but just speaking Kingly truth. The ';typical man'; does so much unnecessary things and actions for them that they weaken the structure of the natural independence of a REAL woman. Once a woman realize of her OWN independence and has a constant high self esteem, relationships can be totally awesome! A lot of women also get into this TV world on how to look and act and this absolutely diminishes the real women within. They create their own pressures on the exterior of their bodies and expect the men to pay for it 24/7!! WRONG!!!
Maybe you're just getting with the lame feminist women who turn the relationship into a battleground. Stick with the normal girls.