I've been dating my boyfriend for a good 1 year and 7 months now and we have had the longdistance relationship for 2 months and it isnt going so well.. but we manage to settle our issues.. thing is, im too tired of fights but i want this to keep going. is it right to keep this going knowing we might not have the chance to see eachother again?What can you say about long distance relationships?
My husband and I met online and for 1 year we only spoke on the phone and messenger and had only seen each other in photos. After a year he came to visit me for 2 weeks only. We lived in different continents. He came to see me a couple of times more and then about 8 months later he came to live with me. We are now married and absolutely love our life with each other. Long distance relationship are hard of course when you are in love, but precisely because you're in love you cannot imagine yourself with someone else so you wouldnt go leaving your boyfriend/girlfriend because they are too far.
There will be hard times because youre are frustrated for not being together, in our case we had a lot of financial and family problems too so that didnt help but we didnt give up on each other and especially my wonderful husband didnt give up on me when I was going through such a hard time I was miserable and angry and unreasonable he stood by me and helped me and did not leave.
True love lasts forever no matter what other people will like you to think
If you love your boyfriend, and you know he is the person you want to be with the rest of your life then just tell him that and support him and stick by him, and try not to argue please, its very bad for every relationship, sometimes a quick argument happens but dont do it all the time.
Have compassion and be selfless and your relationship will thrive.
I wish you the best of luckWhat can you say about long distance relationships?
Long distance relationships SUCK full stop!! I mean what is the point if you cant share moments with the person or show them that you love them.. Stand up for each other etc.. If you don't see your boyfriend a lot then maybe you should just explain to him that you ont think it's going to work and maybe both of you should just move on.. and fin new love it's not impossible.. If you really love him then make it work but you need to see each other more and communicate.. One year and seven moths is along time so I guess just follow your heart**
seldom do they work. the one who moves now has a new life, new friends, new surroundings, everything is new and different obviously. it is a whole new world to them that they are adjusting to. not that they forget about ';home'; but realistically....they also need to keep up with the now. the one who stays behind life does not really change except for the fact that their ';other ';is now gone. so things are a bit frustrating for the one at home. it does not mean they do not love each other but it is hard to keep it going. you have a lot of time invested. maybe you could call it friends before you do not get along. but that may come with time anyways unfortunately. just try not to get catty as this is probably stressful both ways. good luck!!!
ok, Im going to be strait with you because I wish people were with me.
THEY DO NOT WORK!
I personally have had 3 LDRs and they all went terribly wrong, my first I met when I was on a holiday with my aunt, he was her neighbor and we spent 4 weeks together then were together for 5 months, we had a bit of trouble when he lost his phone and internet privileges and he had no way of telling me so I called him and left a message breaking up with him. Later I found out he had so easily cheated on me because I was not around.
Example 2, I moved away from my home of 13 years and my best friend decided he wanted me, we tried on and off for 2 years (I was with someone in between) and it ruined our friendship, we were both busy and the stress of wanting to see each other was frustrating. I met someone where I live and broke up with my bf for him, we are now engaged and expecting our first baby
example 3. when me and my best friend broke up I met a guy online (big mistake) and we were together for 8 months, he was so sweet and so nice, and exactly the same to the other 8 girls he said he loved.
You can make it work if there is any way to see him frequently so you have something to look forward to, even if its every few months.
Long distance relationships are extremely difficult unless you periodically visit each other or you have a timeline as to when you will permanently reunite. If you do not, I'm afraid it is likely to fail.
Hot love connections are beyond distance and time .
I guess if you like phone sex.
Sadly long distance relationships don't last. I've been there.
You need to see each other at least once in a while.
no intimacy at all=no point at all.
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