Friday, November 25, 2011

How do you get over a broken heart from different careers and bad relationships? It seems like Its never?

getting better everyday. I cry all the time and I can't even feel anymore sympathy or compassion. All I feel is pain, and Im depressed. How did you get over your broken heart?How do you get over a broken heart from different careers and bad relationships? It seems like Its never?
depression is an ugly thing that can consume you... over time it fades away. Working out in a gym is the best way to fight it naturally. keep yourself busy - dont lose momentum.





Over time you will get better.How do you get over a broken heart from different careers and bad relationships? It seems like Its never?
Cliche but true, TIME is the great healer when it comes to grieving, and you are grieving. Whether or not your relationship was 5 days or 5 years there is a process you have to go through. You may well be sick of feeling this way, It's a roller coaster of emotion and it isn't easy to get off.





What you have got to concentrate on is YOU!





Sure you may well think that you can only be happy with your partner, but what were you before your partner? Miserable? Ready to end it all?. Most likely you had happy times and sad times just like now.





Do some little things for yourself. Prove to yourself YOU are what matters. Love yourself and soon you will feel better
it varies person to person. and if your capable of picking yourself up and going on. All of your feelings are common with people going through head breaks. Sometimes you wont be able to get over it yourself. Depression is a terrible thing, and sometimes you need help. Maybe talking to a therapist might help ease some pain. But its not an easy road. You can't expect to wake up the next day and be happy and move on. It can even take years. Its tough, im not gonna lie.
If you are stuck in a depression, it is really hard to get out of it on your own. Talk with a therapist. It will help you get out of this funk. And remember that this is just the depression talking! You will feel so much better when you learn how to fight it! Talk it out with a therapist, you'll feel better.
;) Dude, buy lots and lots of cookie dough and chocolate! Every time you break up grab a buddy and go clubbing and start just meeting new people for the heck of it...and every time you lose or don't get a job, try researching the field a little more and start learning a little more and treat yourself every time you do learn something. Good Luck!!! ;)
This is going to be the worse answer ever and I am severely sorry if I sound way harsh, but here goes the truth:


You get over it.


Think about it, wouldn't it just be easier to let go?


Oh, but of course, you CAN'T let go! It's too difficult, blah blah blah...


Guess what, you can't change the past no matter how much you try.


You can only prepare for a better future.
Don't dwell on it do something that's really fun for you. What I find works best for me is looking forward to someone new or the thrill of the unknown see it as a project.
Block negative thinking. Reading helps me a lot to distract my mind from thinking about my bad relationships. Find yourself a hobby, be around people.

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