How can i make my long distance relationship easier? It's so hard and so painful at times. Especially when it seems like the other person is having an easier time.How to make long distance relationships easier?
Maybe they have a webcam that would be nice.How to make long distance relationships easier?
LOTS OF COMMUNICATION
availability
if u can call him/her anytime and talk for longer then 10-15 min then its all good
be loyal, loving and caring. nothingelse u have to do to make yr relationship lasts forever, but u have to get ready/prepare for it honestly first. as the other one is far away, keep in contact. talk through phone, messenger, pc-pc and keep send sms to let the person know how much u love and care.
use these urls to keep the relationship alive:
http://www.oovoo.com
http://www.justvoip.com
http://www.paltalk.com
lots of free sms service available now, just search in google.
all the best!
They are too painful for my heart. Too unhealthy.
just have you meet this person once and a while.
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yeah, I've been in a similar situation for a while now - we were together for 2 years and now a year and a half hundreds of miles apart. Skype is a lifesaver - great to chat face-to-face every now and then.
Ultimately, things will settle only as you learn to trust each other more. It hurt me intensely the first time she had to go. Even when you're willing to say you trust somebody completely, it's only time together and time apart that will really help you to understand how you feel. She's just on the bus home right now, which isn't easy for me - but it's something I'm also strangely comfortable with, simply because we know each other better than anybody. I'm not worried about her, and she's not worried about me. It's just time to tick away, and it goes faster than you'd ever be willing to believe.
Move closer.
short distance
talk to eachother as much as possible and try to make an arrangement for when you two can meet up and be together. It gives you guys something to look forward to.
i dont think there is a way to make it easier. sorry to say this but i dont think it would work. what can you do in long distance relationships? talk on the phone, myspace. allll boring. but thats just my opinion.
always know that you will be together sometime and tell her that
it's the worst possible type of relationship. i had 1 year of LTR and then one day he tells me that he doesn't love me anymore. that waiting does not seem like a reasonable thing to do
but i think about him every damned day... and i have no idea when i can move on (or when i will want to move on)
because i still haven't located the OFF button for my love for him :/
but to really make it easier - get busy. start working, go to courses (not boring ones though), eliminate free time. don't hang around doing nothing, kick happy couples in the stomach for being vulgar and cuddling while you're around and other things like that. but most of all the time planning - if you have stressful job, it will lead to not thinking about your significant other like a psychomaniac
If you havent been together long, I wouldnt even try.
If they sound like there having a good time. They probably are.... :/
If its a longer realtionship and you really have feelings for eachother.
Just talk to them everyday!
Maybe send them some pictures or cute short notes sometimes.
Still think of the little things.
Maybe they will to.
dont have one!!!! duh
Trust each other, and think whether you really need it! I DO believe that this kind of relationship can work out, but one has to try hard! Talk to each other, chat, send NORMAL letters not e-mails. It'll make it easier!
I understand what you're going through. My boyfriend and I have been going to different schools and I've always felt that he was taking the distance a lot easier than I was. We have made a few adjustments and are about to celebrate 4 years together! Have daily conversations. Communication is essential in any kind of relationship, especially long distance ones. Try and have a good conversation each day, whether it be 15 minutes long or 3 hours long. Invest in a web cam if you don't have one and have some of your conversation via video chat. I use skype...just seeing the person helps a lot. Try extra hard not to get into fights, its makes things so much worse. Be positive. If you feel like you two can do this, then there is nothing stopping you. Good luck and I really hope this helps.
I know exactly what you mean. Every time I talk to him I can tell that he is having an easier time.
It does hurt a lot but I can't give up
move to where he/she is
Every night phone calls help. Also, email each other daily about your day. It worked for me. Long distant for 6 months, then married her.
They are tough, and unfortunately, more times than not, they fail. Since your still committed to trying, you can try ';care packages';. Just basically mail a shoebox full of stuff that she really digs. You can send an old school letter, as opposed to email. Just mix it up as best you can. Good luck.
I know how you feel, it does get hard and heartbreaking at times. You have to really look into it. Ask yourself, is this person really worth the pain? If so, then talk to them about this, communicate more, perhaps move closer if that is possible. If not, then maybe you should just let them go, and move on.
Good luck!
I love a girl but she lives in New Mexico and I live in California. She says she loves me to, but i really wish i could see her. I guess talking on the phone helps, cause you get to talk to her everyday. but yeah, i dont know how to make it easier. hope it goes well between you two.
never give up on eachother ! Talk constantly and always know they love you
I have spent 3 years in a long distance relationship. Now we have lived together for 2. You just need to find alot that you guys can talk about. We would talk on the computer alot and the phone. Just make sure that you guys have an understanding that some times the other one wants to do stuff and that they aren't trying to be mean. Just some times it is nice to get out of the house. Save money for plane tickets. Just be thoughtful of one another also.
Love each other unconditionally is the best advice
maybe get webcams?
regular visits.
regular phone convos.
basically they suck..
Long distance relationships can work, but they're a lot more work than you may realize. It will never be easy. If you want closeness, you obviously can't get it from someone who lives far away. If you really love this person, you should move closer to. Otherwise, you'll be more lonely than you can ever imagine.
I think you should tell him him/her to vist you or you could either go visit or move with him/her.
my sister was in a long dstance relationship when she met her bf she got through it and they now live together
visit often
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